Loving Me
Together we will learn, discuss, and put, Mindful Self-Compassion, into practice.
There is a lot of information out there on self-compassion and it seems to be something we often verbalize to each other – “take care of yourself”, “love yourself more”, “put on your own oxygen mask first” – and yet, we falter to find ways to implement it into our lives. In this course, we will break it down into easy pieces and will take time to practice it. This is a 16 week course, which includes 8 sessions and an introductory session. That means we will have ample time to get acquainted with the material, process it and put it into practice without overwhelming your current life schedule.
My intention for this 16 week course is for us to achieve more compassion for ourselves and others. Shifting ourselves away from criticism, blame, and self-limiting behaviors will result in better connections/relationships, more compassion in our lives, and a stronger sense of well-being.
"Compassion is a STRENGTH that allows us to transform emotional suffering, it is a SKILL that can be learned, and it can be directed toward oneself". - Christopher Germer, PhD
"Freeing yourself from the trap of destructive thoughts and emotions through self-compassion can boost your self-esteem from the inside out, reduce depression and anxiety, and even help you stick to your diet". Christopher Germer, PhD.
You choose how much or little you want to interact with the group. There will be time for interaction during the live sessions and a private Facebook page for further discussion/comments between sessions for those wanting interaction. Ohers may choose to follow along and be silent. You will not be put on the spot or called out to speak if you don’t want to.
This is for anyone who wants to:
1. Feel loved and supported.
2. Enhance your ability to cope with challenges.
3. Learn to quiet the critical voice in your head.
4. Increase emotional well-being.
5. Find acceptance of self.
6. Realize deeper happiness and peace in life.
Myths about Self-Compassion:
Myth: Self-Compassion is Selfish.
Truth: Being good to yourself gives you the emotional strength to be good to others.
Myth: Self-Compassion means you feel sorry for yourself.
Truth: Self-Compassion is the ANTIDOTE to self-pity.
Myth: Self-Compassion will lead to self-indulgence.
Truth: Self-Compassion avoids self-indulgence because it harms us, whereas long term health and well-being often require delaying gratification.
Myth: Self-Compassion will undermine my motivation.
Truth: Self-Criticism will undermine motivation. Self-Compassion encourages and supports motivation.
Where: Online - don't worry, you won’t need to be a computer wizard. I'll email a link to the online classroom (Zoom). Just click the link and enjoy the discussion. Connect from computer, tablet or compatible cell phone.
When: Thursdays. 7pm. 1-1/2 to 2 hours in length (depending on discussion participation).
Bi-weekly. 8 sessions. 16 weeks. Starting 11/14/2019, ending 2/27/2020. Includes additional free introductory session to welcome and set intentions. Day or time not good for you? You can still be part of the course. A recorded session will be emailed to everyone (within 24 hours) in case you are not able to attend the live session or want to review or listen again. Recorded sessions will be available for 90 days. A private Facebook page will be available for discussion and comments. All sessions confidential and only open to members. Enjoy this course your own way – be part of the live calls or watch on your own time table. Includes introductory session, 8 live sessions (2 per month), bi-weekly inspirational and instructional emails and a private Facebook page to connect with members throughout the 16 weeks.
Cost: $200 for full course. This amount does not include the two books required below.
I am very passionate that this be affordable to everyone interested. Please contact me at dede@mysticmoonwellnes.com if your budget does not allow for the pricing listed, and I will do my best to make a reasonable arrangement with you.
Required: A valid email address will be required in order for you to receive links and other information throughout the course. Please note that by registering for this program, you are opting in to receive emails from DeDe at Mystic Moon Wellness.
Required Materials: Two books will be required for this course. They are not included in course pricing. They must be purchased on your own. Links after book name are to an associate link for Amazon. Purchase here or place of your choice. Please purchase prior to the start of this course.
1. Book Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff https://amzn.to/2ZKuIQA
2. Book The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion by Christopher Germer https://amzn.to/2ZDD6pb
Note: Information and practices come from both Eastern and Western traditions. While some spiritual topics may be part of the discussion, they are in no way meant to direct or change your personal beliefs. It is best to come to the table with an open heart and mind. It is always your choice to determine if the information suits your belief systems. There is no intention for you to feel pressured or excluded if differing belief systems are present. All are welcome.
Note: Course information is based on the writings of Kristin Neff PhD, Christopher Germer PhD, Sharon Salzberg and several others.
Overview:
Meaning of abbreviations:
SC: (Self Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Kristin Neff, PhD.)
MP: (The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion by Christopher K. Germer. PhD.)
Introductory Session: 11/14/19
SC: n/a
MP: Read Introduction before this session
Session 1: 11/21/19 Exploring Mindful Self Compassion
SC: Read Chapters 1,2 before this session
MP: Read Chapter 1 before this session
Session 2: 12/5/19 Mindfulness 101
SC: Read Chapter 5 before this session
MP: Read Chapter 2 before this session
Session 3: 12/19/19 Self Compassion 101
SC: Read Chapter 3, 4 before this session
MP: Read Chapter 4, 6 before this session
Session 4: 1/2/20 Deepening the Practice
SC: Read Chapter 8 before this session (chapter 7 optional)
MP: Read Chapter 5 before this session
Session 5: 1/16/20 Transformation
SC: Read Chapter 12 before this session
MP: Read Appendix B before this session
Session 6: 1/30/20 Working with Difficult Emotions
SC: Read Chapter 6 before this session
MP: Read Chapter 3 before this session
Session 7: 2/13/20 Compassion for Others
SC: Read Chapter 9 before this session (chapters 10 & 11 optional)
MP: Read Chapter 7 before this session
Session 8: 2/27/20 Bringing the Practice of Self Compassion into Your Daily Life
SC: Read Chapter 13 before this session
MP: Read Chapter 8, 9 before this session
